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Day #11 Friday Date Day #2-28 Days of Self Love

 

Friday Date Day-Coffee Time!



 

Friday Date Day Suggestion:

Coffee Time!

Go to your favorite coffee spot and enjoy your favorite coffee.  Here's Nene's Favorite coffee from Starbucks.

Caramel Ribbon Crunch
Tall
No whip bottom 
Add Caramel add extra crunch on the bottom
Regular Caramel on top
Extra Crunch
Keep whip on top

This is Nene's favorite drink because it doesn't have a strong coffee flavor or a lot of caffeine!


It's day 11 of the 28 Days of Self Love Challenge and every Friday we're giving you "Friday Self Date Day" suggestions.

These "dates" are an opportunity for you to get dressed up just like you would for a date with someone but instead go to your favorite restaurant or new place, go do all of the things you would want to do with a partner, but do it for yourself! Even if you're in a relationship you can still take part in this activity.  Sometimes our partners don't share our interests but that doesn't mean we can't enjoy activities alone.

Every Friday for the entire month of February we'll post a Friday Self Date Day suggestion.

If you're single don't miss out on life just because you don't have a partner.  This is a challenge because sometimes it can be hard to do things alone so we're challenging you to step outside of your comfort zone and we also want you to share your experiences.

Here's some suggestions for your Friday Self Date Day:

Take yourself out to eat

Breakfast- Go to your favorite coffee shop and order your favorite coffee.  Take it to a body of water with your journal for some self-reflection and journal time.  Write a letter to yourself and speak kindly to you about you.

Lunch- Find your favorite food truck and enjoy your lunch in the park. Enjoy the nature around you.

Dinner- Get dressed up and go to your favorite restaurant or if you're feeling adventurous try a place that you've always wanted to dine in.



Don't forget to send a picture or video of your own experience and we'll share it to the Phatabulous Queens Facebook Page.












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